Hi I'm John
If you're like me, then you know it's time to stop wading through the dating pool and focus on finding that special person to befriend, marry, and raise 2-4 kids with in paradise.
This website contains all the basics (and many non-basics) about my lifestyle, values, and expectations.
This is not a joke.
So, without further ado...
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Hi I'm John
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"text": "<p>Here is a playlist to set the mood while you're exploring the rest of this site.</p>\n<p>So, girl, put your records on. Play some of my favorite songs, just go ahead let your hair down...</p>\n<p>and then tighten that hair back up because we're about to get serious.</p>\n<p><em>In general, when you're ready to move on to the next section, swipe up.</em></p>\n",
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"While you’re swiping through, I might as well tell you about myself.",
"I was born in 1988 in mid June on a partly cloudy day (according to historical weather data). ",
"I am a dual citizen (🇨🇦/🇺🇸). My father is from Vancouver and my mother is from New York City. As you would expect from my mixed heritage, I am entitled and loud, but very polite. ",
"My mom’s favorite story from my childhood: One day, after performing some mundane task any child could do, I proudly proclaimed: “I’m handsome, and I get the job done.”",
"This is still true today.",
"Keen observers will have noted that I am a Gemini, which I have learned is a big red flag.",
"I am also a ENFJ, Gryffindor, Enneagram 2, Numerology 4, have broken a mirror, walked under a ladder, and once I received a chain email and did not forward it. I do not know which of these is the reason I am still single.",
"I had a childhood, and then an adolesence. Now, I am an adult.",
"I am 194cm tall on online dating apps; which roughly translates to 183cm in real life.",
"I do not drink, smoke, or do drugs; I have no tatoos, diseases, secret children, or psycho ex-girlfriends; I've never been to jail, but I have been to therapy.",
"Boring, I know.",
"I even misspelt 'tattoos'.",
"But I am not a total nerd.",
"I know how to ride a motorcycle.",
"I have been in 4 fights with dubious outcomes.",
"Just the other day, a guy in a co-working space called me as asshole five times because I \"stole\" his table while he was making a 40 minute phone call.",
"He did not get his table back.",
"I dislike crowds, except at theme parks.",
"One of my favorite feelings is flashing my FastPass and skipping a 1 hour long queue to get on the Spider Man ride for the third time.",
"I think I was meant to be an aristocrat.",
"But not a socialite aristocrat, politicing at balls and negotiating trade deals with spice merchants.",
"I was meant to be a gentleman scientist in the 1400s, spending my days hunting phesant and creating elegant, functional, but inaccurate models of the solar system.",
"As it stands, I am pretty close to having created a life of creative leisure.",
"Professionally, I have a particular set of skills that are in high demand.",
"Since you are on my website, you have probably guessed one of them. ",
"I am the CTO of a US startup company is run by one of my best friends. We make safety software that monitors the drivers of driverless cars. This sounds like we sell scuba equipment to fish, but it’s a real thing.",
"We joke that, as his best friend, he hired me out of nepotism. Really, I gave him a 70% discount on my skills. ",
"So really, I did the nepotism.",
"I consider it good practice. When I have kids, I plan to give them every unfair advantage possible.",
"One of those advantages will be health. The only cereal my kids will taste will be sneakily eaten at sleep overs.",
"Another will be wealth and responsibility, I like the idea of gifting each of my children a rental property on their 18th birthday.",
"My daily life in Bali is pretty much the same as everyone's life everywhere. I go to the gym, I do my work, I eat at restaurants, I socialize with friends.",
"The difference is that Bali has the best gyms, the best co-working spots, the best restaurants, is the easiest place in the world to make quality friends, and I never have to do my own laundry. ",
"For fun, I like freediving, karaoke, and board games. I guarantee that you will not guess my standard karaoke songs.",
"I am a formidable Settlers of Catan player; for when I need an escape from building a life on a small island.",
"I also am re-learning how to play the saxophone.",
"That's enough for now, but there are more photos.",
"When you're done, swipe up to see what's next. "
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"What are you doing?!",
"Are you trying to swipe left?",
"Rude. That is not allowed.",
"I am handsome in all of of my photos.",
"Also, who are you looking for? Ryan Reynolds?",
"There are no other options here.",
"Guess what?",
"Still me.",
"It's a good thing I have these safeguards in place.",
"You could have thown away everything we could have had.",
"Our entire future.",
"If this was Tinder, that swipe would have dissapeared our kids.",
"Boom, another one. Little Emma Teasdale. Gone.",
"But considering how this is going, I'll probably have her with someone else.",
"Alright.",
"Alright!",
"ALRIGHT ALREADY! Maybe I'm not for you. ",
"Not everyone needs to be for everyone.",
"But maybe you have a friend who I'd be perfect for.",
"Send her the link.",
"Especially you're super cool and pretty friend who guys are always falling over.",
"your *",
"Okay, we have a plan, right?",
"Right!?",
"Okay, new plan...",
"Here is chapter 1 of Harry Potter.",
"Mr. and Mrs. Dursley, of number four, Privet Drive, were proud to say that they were perfectly normal, thank you very much. ",
"They were the last people you'd expect to be involved in anything strange or mysterious, because they just didn't hold with such nonsense. ",
"Mr. Dursley was the director of a firm called Grunnings, which made drills. ",
"He was a big, beefy man with hardly any neck, although he did have a very large mustache. ",
"Mrs. Dursley was thin and blonde and had nearly twice the usual amount of neck, which came in very useful as she spent so much of her time craning over garden fences, spying on the neighbors. ",
"The Dursleys had a small son called Dudley and in their opinion there was no finer boy anywhere. ",
"The Dursleys had everything they wanted, but they also had a secret, and their greatest fear was that somebody would discover it. ",
"They didn't think they could bear it if anyone found out about the Potters. ",
"Mrs. Potter was Mrs. Dursley's sister, but they hadn't met for several years; in fact, Mrs. Dursley pretended she didn't have a sister, because her sister and her good-for-nothing husband were as unDursleyish as it was possible to be. ",
"The Dursleys shuddered to think what the neighbors would say if the Potters arrived in the street. ",
"The Dursleys knew that the Potters had a small son, too, but they had never even seen him. ",
"This boy was another good reason for keeping the Potters away; they didn't want Dudley mixing with a child like that. ",
"When Mr. and Mrs. Dursley woke up on the dull, gray Tuesday our story starts, there was nothing about the cloudy sky outside to suggest that strange and mysterious things would soon be happening all over the country. ",
"Mr. Dursley hummed as he picked out his most boring tie for work, and Mrs. Dursley gossiped away happily as she wrestled a screaming Dudley into his high chair. ",
"None of them noticed a large, tawny owl flutter past the window. ",
"At half past eight, Mr. Dursley picked up his briefcase, pecked Mrs. Dursley on the cheek, and tried to kiss Dudley good-bye but missed, because Dudley was now having a tantrum and throwing his cereal at the walls. ",
"\"Little tyke,\" chortled Mr. Dursley as he left the house. ",
"He got into his car and backed out of number four's drive. ",
"It was on the corner of the street that he noticed the first sign of something peculiar -- a cat reading a map. ",
"For a second, Mr. Dursley didn't realize what he had seen -- then he jerked his head around to look again. ",
"There was a tabby cat standing on the corner of Privet Drive, but there wasn't a map in sight. ",
"What could he have been thinking of? ",
"It must have been a trick of the light. ",
"Mr. Dursley blinked and stared at the cat. ",
"It stared back. ",
"As Mr. Dursley drove around the corner and up the road, he watched the cat in his mirror. ",
"It was now reading the sign that said Privet Drive -- no, looking at the sign; cats couldn't read maps or signs. ",
"Mr. Dursley gave himself a little shake and put the cat out of his mind. ",
"As he drove toward town he thought of nothing except a large order of drills he was hoping to get that day. ",
"But on the edge of town, drills were driven out of his mind by something else. ",
"As he sat in the usual morning traffic jam, he couldn't help noticing that there seemed to be a lot of strangely dressed people about. ",
"People in cloaks. ",
"Mr. Dursley couldn't bear people who dressed in funny clothes -- the getups you saw on young people! ",
"He supposed this was some stupid new fashion. ",
"He drummed his fingers on the steering wheel and his eyes fell on a huddle of these weirdos standing quite close by. ",
"They were whispering excitedly together. ",
"Mr. Dursley was enraged to see that a couple of them weren't young at all; why, that man had to be older than he was, and wearing an emerald-green cloak! ",
"The nerve of him! ",
"But then it struck Mr. Dursley that this was probably some silly stunt -- these people were obviously collecting for something... yes, that would be it. ",
"The traffic moved on and a few minutes later, Mr. Dursley arrived in the Grunnings parking lot, his mind back on drills. ",
"Mr. Dursley always sat with his back to the window in his office on the ninth floor. ",
"If he hadn't, he might have found it harder to concentrate on drills that morning. ",
"He didn't see the owls swoop ing past in broad daylight, though people down in the street did; they pointed and gazed open- mouthed as owl after owl sped overhead. ",
"Most of them had never seen an owl even at nighttime. ",
"Mr. Dursley, however, had a perfectly normal, owl-free morning. ",
"He yelled at five different people. ",
"He made several important telephone calls and shouted a bit more. ",
"He was in a very good mood until lunchtime, when he thought he'd stretch his legs and walk across the road to buy himself a bun from the bakery. ",
"He'd forgotten all about the people in cloaks until he passed a group of them next to the baker's. ",
"He eyed them angrily as he passed. ",
"He didn't know why, but they made him uneasy. ",
"This bunch were whispering excitedly, too, and he couldn't see a single collecting tin. ",
"It was on his way back past them, clutching a large doughnut in a bag, that he caught a few words of what they were saying. ",
"\"The Potters, that's right, that's what I heard yes, their son, Harry\" Mr. Dursley stopped dead. ",
"Fear flooded him. ",
"He looked back at the whisperers as if he wanted to say something to them, but thought better of it. ",
"He dashed back across the road, hurried up to his office, snapped at his secretary not to disturb him, seized his telephone, and had almost finished dialing his home number when he changed his mind. ",
"He put the receiver back down and stroked his mustache, thinking... no, he was being stupid. ",
"Potter wasn't such an unusual name. ",
"He was sure there were lots of people called Potter who had a son called Harry. ",
"Come to think of it, he wasn't even sure his nephew was called Harry. ",
"He'd never even seen the boy. ",
"It might have been Harvey. ",
"Or Harold. ",
"There was no point in worrying Mrs. Dursley; she always got so upset at any mention of her sister. ",
"He didn't blame her -- if he'd had a sister like that... but all the same, those people in cloaks... ",
"He found it a lot harder to concentrate on drills that afternoon and when he left the building at five o'clock, he was still so worried that he walked straight into someone just outside the door. ",
"\"Sorry,\" he grunted, as the tiny old man stumbled and almost fell. ",
"It was a few seconds before Mr. Dursley realized that the man was wearing a violet cloak. ",
"He didn't seem at all upset at being almost knocked to the ground. ",
"On the contrary, his face split into a wide smile and he said in a squeaky voice that made passersby stare, \"Don't be sorry, my dear sir, for nothing could upset me today! ",
"Rejoice, for You-Know-Who has gone at last! ",
"Even Muggles like yourself should be celebrating, this happy, happy day!\" ",
"And the old man hugged Mr. Dursley around the middle and walked off. ",
"Mr. Dursley stood rooted to the spot. ",
"He had been hugged by a complete stranger. ",
"He also thought he had been called a Muggle, whatever that was. ",
"He was rattled. ",
"He hurried to his car and set off for home, hoping he was imagining things, which he had never hoped before, because he didn't approve of imagination. ",
"As he pulled into the driveway of number four, the first thing he saw -- and it didn't improve his mood -- was the tabby cat he'd spotted that morning. ",
"It was now sitting on his garden wall. ",
"He was sure it was the same one; it had the same markings around its eyes. ",
"\"Shoo!\" ",
"said Mr. Dursley loudly. ",
"The cat didn't move. ",
"It just gave him a stern look. ",
"Was this normal cat behavior? ",
"Mr. Dursley wondered. ",
"Trying to pull himself together, he let himself into the house. ",
"He was still determined not to mention anything to his wife. ",
"Mrs. Dursley had had a nice, normal day. ",
"She told him over dinner all about Mrs. Next Door's problems with her daughter and how Dudley had learned a new word (\"Won't!\"). ",
"Mr. Dursley tried to act normally. ",
"When Dudley had been put to bed, he went into the living room in time to catch the last report on the evening news: \"And finally, bird-watchers everywhere have reported that the nation's owls have been behaving very unusually today. ",
"Although owls normally hunt at night and are hardly ever seen in daylight, there have been hundreds of sightings of these birds flying in every direction since sunrise. ",
"Experts are unable to explain why the owls have suddenly changed their sleeping pattern.\" ",
"The newscaster allowed himself a grin.",
"\"Most mysterious. ",
"And now, over to Jim McGuffin with the weather. ",
"Going to be any more showers of owls tonight, Jim?\" ",
"\"Well, Ted,\" said the weatherman, \"I don't know about that, but it's not only the owls that have been acting oddly today. ",
"Viewers as far apart as Kent, Yorkshire, and Dundee have been phoning in to tell me that instead of the rain I promised yesterday, they've had a downpour of shooting stars! ",
"Perhaps people have been celebrating Bonfire Night early -- it's not until next week, folks! ",
"But I can promise a wet night tonight.\" ",
"Mr. Dursley sat frozen in his armchair. ",
"Shooting stars all over Britain? ",
"Owls flying by daylight? ",
"Mysterious people in cloaks all over the place? ",
"And a whisper, a whisper about the Potters... ",
"Mrs. Dursley came into the living room carrying two cups of tea. ",
"It was no good. ",
"He'd have to say something to her. ",
"He cleared his throat nervously. ",
"\"Er -- Petunia, dear -- you haven't heard from your sister lately, have you?\" ",
"As he had expected, Mrs. Dursley looked shocked and angry. ",
"After all, they normally pretended she didn't have a sister. ",
"\"No,\" she said sharply. ",
"\"Why?\" ",
"\"Funny stuff on the news,\" Mr. Dursley mumbled. ",
"\"Owls... shooting stars... and there were a lot of funny-looking people in town today...\" ",
"\"So?\" ",
"snapped Mrs. Dursley. ",
"\"Well, I just thought... maybe... it was something to do with... you know... her crowd.\" ",
"Mrs. Dursley sipped her tea through pursed lips. ",
"Mr. Dursley wondered whether he dared tell her he'd heard the name \"Potter.\" ",
"He decided he didn't dare. ",
"Instead he said, as casually as he could, \"Their son -- he'd be about Dudley's age now, wouldn't he?\" ",
"\"I suppose so,\" said Mrs. Dursley stiffly. ",
"\"What's his name again? ",
"Howard, isn't it?\" ",
"\"Harry. ",
"Nasty, common name, if you ask me.\" ",
"\"Oh, yes,\" said Mr. Dursley, his heart sinking horribly. ",
"\"Yes, I quite agree.\" ",
"He didn't say another word on the subject as they went upstairs to bed. ",
"While Mrs. Dursley was in the bathroom, Mr. Dursley crept to the bedroom window and peered down into the front garden. ",
"The cat was still there. ",
"It was staring down Privet Drive as though it were waiting for something. ",
"Was he imagining things? ",
"Could all this have anything to do with the Potters? ",
"If it did... if it got out that they were related to a pair of -- well, he didn't think he could bear it. ",
"The Dursleys got into bed. ",
"Mrs. Dursley fell asleep quickly but Mr. Dursley lay awake, turning it all over in his mind. ",
"His last, comforting thought before he fell asleep was that even if the Potters were involved, there was no reason for them to come near him and Mrs. Dursley. ",
"The Potters knew very well what he and Petunia thought about them and their kind.... ",
"He couldn't see how he and Petunia could get mixed up in anything that might be going on -- he yawned and turned over -- it couldn't affect them.... ",
"How very wrong he was. ",
"Mr. Dursley might have been drifting into an uneasy sleep, but the cat on the wall outside was showing no sign of sleepiness. ",
"It was sitting as still as a statue, its eyes fixed unblinkingly on the far corner of Privet Drive. ",
"It didn't so much as quiver when a car door slammed on the next street, nor when two owls swooped overhead. ",
"In fact, it was nearly midnight before the cat moved at all. ",
"A man appeared on the corner the cat had been watching, appeared so suddenly and silently you'd have thought he'd just popped out of the ground. ",
"The cat's tail twitched and its eyes narrowed. ",
"Nothing like this man had ever been seen on Privet Drive. ",
"He was tall, thin, and very old, judging by the silver of his hair and beard, which were both long enough to tuck into his belt. ",
"He was wearing long robes, a purple cloak that swept the ground, and high-heeled, buckled boots. ",
"His blue eyes were light, bright, and sparkling behind half-moon spectacles and his nose was very long and crooked, as though it had been broken at least twice. ",
"This man's name was Albus Dumbledore. ",
"Albus Dumbledore didn't seem to realize that he had just arrived in a street where everything from his name to his boots was unwelcome. ",
"He was busy rummaging in his cloak, looking for something. ",
"But he did seem to realize he was being watched, because he looked up suddenly at the cat, which was still staring at him from the other end of the street. ",
"For some reason, the sight of the cat seemed to amuse him. ",
"He chuckled and muttered, \"I should have known.\" ",
"He found what he was looking for in his inside pocket. ",
"It seemed to be a silver cigarette lighter. ",
"He flicked it open, held it up in the air, and clicked it. ",
"The nearest street lamp went out with a little pop. ",
"He clicked it again -- the next lamp flickered into darkness. ",
"Twelve times he clicked the Put-Outer, until the only lights left on the whole street were two tiny pinpricks in the distance, which were the eyes of the cat watching him. ",
"If anyone looked out of their window now, even beady-eyed Mrs. Dursley, they wouldn't be able to see anything that was happening down on the pavement. ",
"Dumbledore slipped the Put-Outer back inside his cloak and set off down the street toward number four, where he sat down on the wall next to the cat. ",
"He didn't look at it, but after a moment he spoke to it. ",
"\"Fancy seeing you here, Professor McGonagall.\" ",
"He turned to smile at the tabby, but it had gone. ",
"Instead he was smiling at a rather severe-looking woman who was wearing square glasses exactly the shape of the markings the cat had had around its eyes. ",
"She, too, was wearing a cloak, an emerald one. ",
"Her black hair was drawn into a tight bun. ",
"She looked distinctly ruffled. ",
"\"How did you know it was me?\" ",
"she asked. ",
"\"My dear Professor, I 've never seen a cat sit so stiffly.\" ",
"\"You'd be stiff if you'd been sitting on a brick wall all day,\" said Professor McGonagall. ",
"\"All day? ",
"When you could have been celebrating? ",
"I must have passed a dozen feasts and parties on my way here.\" ",
"Professor McGonagall sniffed angrily. ",
"\"Oh yes, everyone's celebrating, all right,\" she said impatiently. ",
"\"You'd think they'd be a bit more careful, but no -- even the Muggles have noticed something's going on. ",
"It was on their news.\" ",
"She jerked her head back at the Dursleys' dark living-room window. ",
"\"I heard it. ",
"Flocks of owls... shooting stars.... ",
"Well, they're not completely stupid. ",
"They were bound to notice something. ",
"Shooting stars down in Kent -- I'll bet that was Dedalus Diggle. ",
"He never had much sense.\" ",
"\"You can't blame them,\" said Dumbledore gently. ",
"\"We've had precious little to celebrate for eleven years.\" ",
"\"I know that,\" said Professor McGonagall irritably. ",
"\"But that's no reason to lose our heads. ",
"People are being downright careless, out on the streets in broad daylight, not even dressed in Muggle clothes, swapping rumors.\" ",
"She threw a sharp, sideways glance at Dumbledore here, as though hoping he was going to tell her something, but he didn't, so she went on. ",
"\"A fine thing it would be if, on the very day YouKnow-Who seems to have disappeared at last, the Muggles found out about us all. ",
"I suppose he really has gone, Dumbledore?\" ",
"\"It certainly seems so,\" said Dumbledore. ",
"\"We have much to be thankful for. ",
"Would you care for a lemon drop?\" ",
"\"A what?\" ",
"\"A lemon drop. ",
"They're a kind of Muggle sweet I'm rather fond of\" \"No, thank you,\" said Professor McGonagall coldly, as though she didn't think this was the moment for lemon drops. ",
"\"As I say, even if You-Know-Who has gone -\" \"My dear Professor, surely a sensible person like yourself can call him by his name? ",
"All this 'You- Know-Who' nonsense -- for eleven years I have been trying to persuade people to call him by his proper name: Voldemort.\" ",
"Professor McGonagall flinched, but Dumbledore, who was unsticking two lemon drops, seemed not to notice. ",
"\"It all gets so confusing if we keep saying 'You-Know-Who.' ",
"I have never seen any reason to be frightened of saying Voldemort's name. ",
"\"I know you haven 't, said Professor McGonagall, sounding half exasperated, half admiring. ",
"\"But you're different. ",
"Everyone knows you're the only one You-Know- oh, all right, Voldemort, was frightened of.\" ",
"\"You flatter me,\" said Dumbledore calmly. ",
"\"Voldemort had powers I will never have.\" ",
"\"Only because you're too -- well -- noble to use them.\" ",
"\"It's lucky it's dark. ",
"I haven't blushed so much since Madam Pomfrey told me she liked my new earmuffs.\" ",
"Professor McGonagall shot a sharp look at Dumbledore and said, \"The owls are nothing next to the rumors that are flying around. ",
"You know what everyone's saying? ",
"About why he's disappeared? ",
"About what finally stopped him?\" ",
"It seemed that Professor McGonagall had reached the point she was most anxious to discuss, the real reason she had been waiting on a cold, hard wall all day, for neither as a cat nor as a woman had she fixed Dumbledore with such a piercing stare as she did now. ",
"It was plain that whatever \"everyone\" was saying, she was not going to believe it until Dumbledore told her it was true. ",
"Dumbledore, however, was choosing another lemon drop and did not answer. ",
"\"What they're saying,\" she pressed on, \"is that last night Voldemort turned up in Godric's Hollow. ",
"He went to find the Potters. ",
"The rumor is that Lily and James Potter are -- are -- that they're -- dead. ",
"\" Dumbledore bowed his head. ",
"Professor McGonagall gasped. ",
"\"Lily and James... ",
"I can't believe it... ",
"I didn't want to believe it... ",
"Oh, Albus...\" ",
"Dumbledore reached out and patted her on the shoulder. ",
"\"I know... ",
"I know...\" he said heavily. ",
"Professor McGonagall's voice trembled as she went on. ",
"\"That's not all. ",
"They're saying he tried to kill the Potter's son, Harry. ",
"But -- he couldn't. ",
"He couldn't kill that little boy. ",
"No one knows why, or how, but they're saying that when he couldn't kill Harry Potter, Voldemort's power somehow broke -- and that's why he's gone. ",
"Dumbledore nodded glumly. ",
"\"It's -- it's true?\" ",
"faltered Professor McGonagall. ",
"\"After all he's done... all the people he's killed... he couldn't kill a little boy? ",
"It's just astounding... of all the things to stop him... but how in the name of heaven did Harry survive?\" ",
"\"We can only guess,\" said Dumbledore. ",
"\"We may never know.\" ",
"Professor McGonagall pulled out a lace handkerchief and dabbed at her eyes beneath her spectacles. ",
"Dumbledore gave a great sniff as he took a golden watch from his pocket and examined it. ",
"It was a very odd watch. ",
"It had twelve hands but no numbers; instead, little planets were moving around the edge. ",
"It must have made sense to Dumbledore, though, because he put it back in his pocket and said, \"Hagrid's late. ",
"I suppose it was he who told you I'd be here, by the way?\" ",
"\"Yes,\" said Professor McGonagall. ",
"\"And I don't suppose you're going to tell me why you're here, of all places?\" ",
"\"I've come to bring Harry to his aunt and uncle. ",
"They're the only family he has left now.\" ",
"\"You don't mean -- you can't mean the people who live here?\" ",
"cried Professor McGonagall, jumping to her feet and pointing at number four. ",
"\"Dumbledore -- you can't. ",
"I've been watching them all day. ",
"You couldn't find two people who are less like us. ",
"And they've got this son -- I saw him kicking his mother all the way up the street, screaming for sweets. ",
"Harry Potter come and live here!\" ",
"\"It's the best place for him,\" said Dumbledore firmly. ",
"\"His aunt and uncle will be able to explain everything to him when he's older. ",
"I've written them a letter.\" ",
"\"A letter?\" ",
"repeated Professor McGonagall faintly, sitting back down on the wall. ",
"\"Really, Dumbledore, you think you can explain all this in a letter? ",
"These people will never understand him! ",
"He'll be famous -- a legend -- I wouldn't be surprised if today was known as Harry Potter day in the future -- there will be books written about Harry -- every child in our world will know his name!\" ",
"\"Exactly,\" said Dumbledore, looking very seriously over the top of his half-moon glasses. ",
"\"It would be enough to turn any boy's head. ",
"Famous before he can walk and talk! ",
"Famous for something he won't even remember! ",
"CarA you see how much better off he'll be, growing up away from all that until he's ready to take it?\" ",
"Professor McGonagall opened her mouth, changed her mind, swallowed, and then said, \"Yes -- yes, you're right, of course. ",
"But how is the boy getting here, Dumbledore?\" ",
"She eyed his cloak suddenly as though she thought he might be hiding Harry underneath it. ",
"\"Hagrid's bringing him.\" ",
"\"You think it -- wise -- to trust Hagrid with something as important as this?\" ",
"I would trust Hagrid with my life,\" said Dumbledore. ",
"\"I'm not saying his heart isn't in the right place,\" said Professor McGonagall grudgingly, \"but you can't pretend he's not careless. ",
"He does tend to -- what was that?\" ",
"A low rumbling sound had broken the silence around them. ",
"It grew steadily louder as they looked up and down the street for some sign of a headlight; it swelled to a roar as they both looked up at the sky -- and a huge motorcycle fell out of the air and landed on the road in front of them. ",
"If the motorcycle was huge, it was nothing to the man sitting astride it. ",
"He was almost twice as tall as a normal man and at least five times as wide. ",
"He looked simply too big to be allowed, and so wild - long tangles of bushy black hair and beard hid most of his face, he had hands the size of trash can lids, and his feet in their leather boots were like baby dolphins. ",
"In his vast, muscular arms he was holding a bundle of blankets. ",
"\"Hagrid,\" said Dumbledore, sounding relieved. ",
"\"At last. ",
"And where did you get that motorcycle?\" ",
"\"Borrowed it, Professor Dumbledore, sit,\" said the giant, climbing carefully off the motorcycle as he spoke. ",
"\"Young Sirius Black lent it to me. ",
"I've got him, sir.\" ",
"\"No problems, were there?\" ",
"\"No, sir -- house was almost destroyed, but I got him out all right before the Muggles started swarmin' around. ",
"He fell asleep as we was flyin' over Bristol.\" ",
"Dumbledore and Professor McGonagall bent forward over the bundle of blankets. ",
"Inside, just visible, was a baby boy, fast asleep. ",
"Under a tuft of jet-black hair over his forehead they could see a curiously shaped cut, like a bolt of lightning. ",
"\"Is that where -?\" ",
"whispered Professor McGonagall. ",
"\"Yes,\" said Dumbledore. ",
"\"He'll have that scar forever.\" ",
"\"Couldn't you do something about it, Dumbledore?\" ",
"\"Even if I could, I wouldn't. ",
"Scars can come in handy. ",
"I have one myself above my left knee that is a perfect map of the London Underground. ",
"Well -- give him here, Hagrid -- we'd better get this over with.\" ",
"Dumbledore took Harry in his arms and turned toward the Dursleys' house. ",
"\"Could I -- could I say good-bye to him, sir?\" ",
"asked Hagrid. ",
"He bent his great, shaggy head over Harry and gave him what must have been a very scratchy, whiskery kiss. ",
"Then, suddenly, Hagrid let out a howl like a wounded dog. ",
"\"Shhh!\" ",
"hissed Professor McGonagall, \"you'll wake the Muggles!\" ",
"\"S-s-sorry,\" sobbed Hagrid, taking out a large, spotted handkerchief and burying his face in it. ",
"\"But I c-c-can't stand it -- Lily an' James dead -- an' poor little Harry off ter live with Muggles -\" \"Yes, yes, it's all very sad, but get a grip on yourself, Hagrid, or we'll be found,\" Professor McGonagall whispered, patting Hagrid gingerly on the arm as Dumbledore stepped over the low garden wall and walked to the front door. ",
"He laid Harry gently on the doorstep, took a letter out of his cloak, tucked it inside Harry's blankets, and then came back to the other two. ",
"For a full minute the three of them stood and looked at the little bundle; Hagrid's shoulders shook, Professor McGonagall blinked furiously, and the twinkling light that usually shone from Dumbledore's eyes seemed to have gone out. ",
"\"Well,\" said Dumbledore finally, \"that's that. ",
"We've no business staying here. ",
"We may as well go and join the celebrations.\" ",
"\"Yeah,\" said Hagrid in a very muffled voice, \"I'll be takin' Sirius his bike back. ",
"G'night, Professor McGonagall -- Professor Dumbledore, sir.\" ",
"Wiping his streaming eyes on his jacket sleeve, Hagrid swung himself onto the motorcycle and kicked the engine into life; with a roar it rose into the air and off into the night. ",
"\"I shall see you soon, I expect, Professor McGonagall,\" said Dumbledore, nodding to her. ",
"Professor McGonagall blew her nose in reply. ",
"Dumbledore turned and walked back down the street. ",
"On the corner he stopped and took out the silver Put-Outer. ",
"He clicked it once, and twelve balls of light sped back to their street lamps so that Privet Drive glowed suddenly orange and he could make out a tabby cat slinking around the corner at the other end of the street. ",
"He could just see the bundle of blankets on the step of number four. ",
"\"Good luck, Harry,\" he murmured. ",
"He turned on his heel and with a swish of his cloak, he was gone. ",
"A breeze ruffled the neat hedges of Privet Drive, which lay silent and tidy under the inky sky, the very last place you would expect astonishing things to happen. ",
"Harry Potter rolled over inside his blankets without waking up. ",
"One small hand closed on the letter beside him and he slept on, not knowing he was special, not knowing he was famous, not knowing he would be woken in a few hours' time by Mrs. Dursley's scream as she opened the front door to put out the milk bottles, nor that he would spend the next few weeks being prodded and pinched by his cousin Dudley... ",
"He couldn't know that at this very moment, people meeting in secret all over the country were holding up their glasses and saying in hushed voices: \"To Harry Potter -- the boy who lived!\"",
"...",
"Whelp. That was it. ",
"I admire your tenacity.",
"I promise you there is no more content here, maybe try exploring the rest of the site?",
"But who knows what will be here in the future!?!?!!?",
"Fine."
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"text": "<h2>Photo Swipe</h2>\n<p>I've promised a lot of things you haven't seen before in online dating.</p>\n<p>All of that is coming, but first let's ease you in with something more familiar.</p>\n<p><em>Swipe right until you're ready for the next section, then swipe up.</em></p>\n"
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Photo Swipe
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"title": "Testimonial Swipe",
"text": "<h2>Testimonial Swipe</h2>\n<p>Here are some nice things that my family and friends have to say about me.</p>\n<p><em>Swipe right until you're ready for the next section, then swipe up.</em></p>\n"
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Testimonial Swipe
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"text": "<h3>Where am I?</h3>\n<p>Living the dream in Bali; and I do mean that I live here. I have a house, a community, a budding rental property buisiness,\nan Indonesian drivers liscence, and a long term visa. If you find me elsewhere, I'm travelling.</p>\n<p>However, this is a worldwide casting call; I'm happy to build a connection remotely or change travel plans for the right woman.</p>\n<p>Also, my wife will have strong family values, so I expect much of our lives will be spent wherever her family lives.</p>\n"
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"title": "Clean Up Little Messes",
"text": "\n<p>Most problems in life are like the crud that sticks to the pan after\ncooking: they clean right up if you address them immediately. Ignore\na mess and it calcifies to the pan. You might give it a good scrub\nthe next day and think that it's okay, but there’s always still a\nbit stuck on there. Every time you cook, your new food ends up\nsticking to the old crud that's stuck there. \n</p>\n<p>\nThis continues and gradually adds layer on layer until one day you look at this crud\ncovered pan, and think: \"How did this happen‽ This isn't the pan I\nfell in love with; a good pan wouldn't crud up so much. Maybe\nthere's a better pan out there; one with more crud resistance...\n</p>"
},
{
"title": "Decisions, Decisions, Decisions",
"text": "\nWe can never predict the future, so if you make a\ndecision--especially a big life decision--because of the anticipated\noutcome, then you open up the possibility for regret. However, if\nyou're proud of the reason you make a decision, then you will never\nregret it, regardless of what happens."
},
{
"title": "Doing vs Dreaming",
"text": "\nMy good friend and workout buddy (Justin in the testimonials) had a\nmoment of Deep Wisdom when he quipped: \"Don't talk to me about the\nabs that you want, show me the abs that you've got.\" \n\nI think about this often, in a variety of contexts."
},
{
"title": "Experience vs Expression",
"text": "\nThe breadth of human experience is very narrow, but the breadth of human expression is infinite. Fandom, politics, sports, creativity, spirituality, and religion \nare all vehicles for us to find connection, purpose, and peace in an otherwise chaotic and uncaring universe. \n</p><p>\nThe trick is to not bind yourself tightly to any one thing; instead, derrive your identity from a multitude of sources and you will remain strong and confident even when certain paths are taken away.\n</p>"
},
{
"title": "Immortality Would Be Great",
"text": "\n\t\t\t\t<p>\nIf a pill existed that would halt aging, I would take it in a heartbeat.\nI would do this even if everyone else still got old and died. I make many\nlifestyle choices based on longevity, hoping that this pill is discovered\nin my lifetime.\n</p>\n<p>\nHowever, I know that my body (which is my entire existence and not\na fancy soul-jar) will probably wear down and eventually stop doing\nanything. So I'm not about to spend my one-and-only life sitting around in a\npadded room trying to not die.</p>"
},
{
"title": "Hi, I’m the problem, it’s me",
"text": "\nWe are each the hero of our own lives, and ultimate responsibility for the outcomes in our\nlives rest with us. Our knowledge, our skills, our decisions, and the peope we choose to trust.\nIf our decisions go awry the only thing we can reliably change is ourselves."
},
{
"title": "Serenity",
"text": "\n<p>\nI grew up Catholic. While I am no longer religeous, there are a few parts I keep. One is the\nSerenity Prayer, at least the first bit:\n</p>\n\n<blockquote>\nGod, give me grace to accept with serenity\nthe things that cannot be changed,\nCourage to change the things\nwhich should be changed,\nand the Wisdom to distinguish\nthe one from the other.\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>\nThere are some extended versions that go wayyy off the rails. I'd finish it thusly:\n</p>\n\n<blockquote>\n>...and may I possess the clarity and determination\nto move as many things from the former category to the latter.\n</blockquote>\n\n\t"
},
{
"title": "The Two Worlds",
"text": "\n<p>The first world is Human World. This is the world of justice, morality and rightness.\nWhere people fight about who owns what, what is good, and what is evil. This is the world of\nmeanings and definitions. Where appearance and perception matter more than results.</p>\n<p>The second world is the Natural World, which has been around long before humans existed and will remain when we are gone.\nThis is the world where an iceberg will sink an unsinkable ship, no matter how good the marketing is.</p>\n<p>We are lucky to spend most of our time in the Human World,\nwhich is much more forgiving. To make your way in the Human World, you\ncan beg, you can plead, you can charm, petition, politic, and come up with clever arguments. You can solve problems with\na bar of chocolate and a back massage.</p>\n<p>In the Natural World, you have to be correct.\nAn incorrectly assembled deck chair from Ikea will collapse, no matter how much\nyou scream about how perfectly you followed the instructions. </p>\n<p>If it turns out that the instructions actually were incorrect, then your satisfaction at being right does not\nleave you with a usable deck chair.</p>\n<p>I do not discount Human World skills. But I do think it is important to know the difference, and to\nnot use Human World methods on Natural World problems.</p>\n<p>Otherwise, we spend all day arguing over definitions, saying things like: “What does 'reality' even mean?”,\nand yelling at broken deck chairs.</p>\n\t"
},
{
"title": "Cosmic Self Awareness",
"text": "\n\t\t\t\t<p>Humans are particularly clever apes with an innate need to find\n\t\t\t\tidentity and then convince ourselves (and others) that our\n\t\t\t\tidentity <strong>means</strong> something.</p>\n\t\t\t\t<p>Really, the world as we know it a sandcastle built on a bunch of logs that were tied\n\t\t\t\ttogether and set adrift in the ocean of the universe. Any metaphorical wave of decent\n\t\t\t\tsize would wipe us all out, and we've has only progressed this far because the water\n\t\t\t\thas been unusually calm for the past 10,000 years.</p>\n\t\t\t\t<p>The universe can't care about us, but we can care about\n\t\t\t\teachother. So, it's important for us to surround ourselves with\n\t\t\t\tpeople worth caring about.</p>\n"
}
]
}
Values & Philosophy
{
"id": "merch",
"type": "merch",
"title": "Merch"
}
Merch
{
"id": "Expectations",
"title": "Expectations",
"type": "text",
"text": "<p>By now you should be well-entertained, which is good because this is where I start manifesting what I want.</p>\n<p>Buckle up, cowgirl.</p>\n",
"cards": [
{
"title": "The Basics",
"text": "\n<p>\nOn my dating journey, I have noticed that—in general—women have \nzero idea what men want in relationships. \n</p>\n<p>\nAfter completing a quick survey of my seeking-and-in relationship male friends; it's very simple. We all want someone who:\n</p>\n\n<ol>\n\t<li>Looks pretty</li>\n\t<li>Is loyal</li>\n\t<li>Makes us feel appreciated</li>\n</ol>\n\n<p>\nAs far as attraction is concerned, we don't care how much money you make or anything else. This means you\ncan do what you want, as long as the other facets of your life don't take away from one of those three. \n</p>\n<p>\nAlso, it's a huge plus if you can make us look like a big shot in front of our friends. \n</p>\n<p>\nEverything else is gravy. So, the following is my gravy.\n</p>\n"
},
{
"title": "Be healthy",
"text": "\n<p>\nSince 2020, I have been living the detox life. That means regular tests, \ngiving up many of my favorite foods, taking handfuls of supplements, \ncalling ahead to restaurants, practicing screen discipline,\nreading labels on everything, spending too much time in saunas, \nand occasionally sticking things up my butt. \n</p>\n<p>\nNow, I am 60% through my nutrition practitioner certification so that I can continue to take my health\ninto my hands. \n</p>\n<p>\nI made these sacrifices for both my own happiness, but also so I will have \nthe vitality to support my future partner and kids. \n</p>\n<p>\nAs my wife, your health and fitness will have a bigger impact on the health and fitness \nof our kids than mine, so I expect it to also be a priority for you.\n</p>\n<p>\nThis doesn’t mean you have to follow the same diet and protocols as me. There are many different \nhealthy lifestyles depending on your biochemistry. However, I do expect you to be pursuing yours,\nand to not give up on it if the tests say you shouldn't eat pasta. \n</p>\n"
},
{
"title": "Be family oriented",
"text": "\n<p>\nI am looking for someone who wants a lifestyle built around creating a relationship and family.\nSomeone whose desire to have and raise children rises from within like a shout of Hallelujah (or whatever). \n</p>\n<p>\nIf you are unsure about having kids, I'm not going to try and convince you. \n</p>\n<p>\nI'm also not looking someone who wants to do single person things and then also have a husband. \nThe priority, for both of us, will be the family. And certain activities are not\ncompatible with that:\n<ol>\n<li>\nMy continuing to maintain this website.\n</li>\n<li> \nYou going out into environments where men are known to pursue women. \n</li>\n<li> \nYou posting photos on social media that guys respond to with one these emojis: 🔥😅🍑💦. \n</li>\n</ol>\n</p>\n<p>\nIf you do want these things to be part of your life, I am not telling you to stop. I am just looking for someone else.\n</p>"
},
{
"title": "My type",
"text": "<p>\nNothing here should be surprising, it conforms to commonly accepted beauty standards. \n</p><p>\nI like women with long, natural colored hair, clear skin, clean teeth, a pretty face, and (as they say on Love Island Australia) a nice rig. I prefer little to no makeup and tattoos, and no invasive aesthetic procedures. \n</p><p>\t\nHeight and hair/eye/skin color do not matter. \n</p><p>\t\t\nI will think you look best after an intense workout: sweaty, messy hair, and dusted in chalk.\n</p>. \n"
}
]
}
Expectations
{
"id": "faq",
"title": "FAQ",
"type": "faq",
"items": [
{
"question": "Are you a serial killer?",
"answer": "No.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "That is exactly what a serial killer would say.",
"answer": "No. A serial killer would say: \n<blockquote>I’m a 6’3” ex-D1 athlete who made money in real estate and is now semi-retired, spending my time writing poetry and training Labrador Retriever puppies to be service dogs at my farm way, way out in the country.</blockquote>",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Why have you thought so much about what a serial killer would say?",
"answer": "You should think more about what a serial killer would say."
}
]
}
]
},
{
"question": "Are you autistic?",
"answer": "<p>\nAutism diagnoses were harder to come by in the 90's when my parents first took me to a child psychologist because I was 'having trouble getting along with other kids'. \n</p>\n<p>\nAccording to an online quiz I took recently, I \"show autistic traits well above the population average\". I am fortunate that my life obsession has been understanding and improving my own psychology, and I expect you will be pleasantly surprised by my social skills.\n</p>",
"subQuestions": []
},
{
"question": "Is this for real?",
"answer": "Yes.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "You're a real person. This isn't some sort of social experiment?",
"answer": "Yes, I am a real person; really trying to meet my wife.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Isn't this a little excessive?",
"answer": "Yes."
}
]
},
{
"question": "Are the shirts for real?",
"answer": "Kind of.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "What does *that* mean?",
"answer": "The merch section started as a joke, but I have been asked to printed several copies.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Wait. Are there actually people wearing 'Date John Teasdale' shirts?",
"answer": "Yes.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "How do I get one?",
"answer": "Ask nicely."
}
]
}
]
}
]
}
]
},
{
"question": "Did you have to do all this just to get dates?",
"answer": "Counterintuitivly, I did all of this to go on less dates."
},
{
"question": "I found a spelling / grammer mistake.",
"answer": "I do that. I will get around to fixing it and probably make a different one in the process. Was that it?",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Yup!",
"answer": "👍"
},
{
"question": "Actually...🥰",
"answer": "If you can't keep it together long enough to engage with me as a person before nitpicking my presentation, then we are not a good match."
}
]
},
{
"question": "Are you this funny in person?",
"answer": "No."
},
{
"question": "Has the website been successful?",
"answer": "<p>I am still single, so by the most important measure it has been 0% successful.\n\n\t\t\t\t</p><p>\nHowever, since creating the website I have been on better dates than before the website. So, it's just a matter of time.\n</p>",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Tell me about these dates!",
"answer": "No. This website is showy to get attention, but my actual dating stories are only used for entertainment with a select few friends."
}
]
},
{
"question": "I wish every guy would do this.",
"answer": "<p>Well, they can't. </p><p>All of this, <em>*gestures toward custom web-app that is engaging and well-written enough for you to have spent {{pageTime}} reading it*</em>, is harder to do than it looks. ChatGPT is not this good yet.</p>\n<p>I take it you like my creativity and forthrightness, but are otherwise not interested in me?</p>",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Yup!",
"answer": "👍"
},
{
"question": "Woooah there, sexy boy, I didn't mean that",
"answer": "Well, hey there. Send me a message."
},
{
"question": "You didn't use ChatGPT?!?!",
"answer": "Nope.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Really? ",
"answer": "Yup. ",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Not even a little bit?",
"answer": "Not even a little.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Come on, I can keep a secret. Now that it's just us here... tell me the truth.",
"answer": "This site is all me. Call me old-fashioned, but I'm not ready to turn the expresson of my soul's inner workings over to the machines just yet."
}
]
}
]
}
]
}
]
},
{
"question": "I would love to have a site of my own.",
"answer": "Start with a google doc. Knowing yourself well enough to write the content is the part that matters. ",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "What I meant was... will you make me a website?",
"answer": "No.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Please?",
"answer": "<p>\n Maybe I'll put it up at https://datejohnteasdale.com/or/your-name\n</p>\n"
}
]
}
]
},
{
"question": "We’re not a match, but I find you fascinating. Can we talk anyways?",
"answer": "Do you live in Bali?",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Yes",
"answer": "Reach out! We can work something out."
},
{
"question": "Nooooo 😭",
"answer": "Unless you’re a podcaster or have some other platform that can expand the reach of the site, I’d only video call with people who are romantically interested in me.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "But I know so many people who would be perfect for you!",
"answer": "Well then! Allow me to introduce you to the: ",
"link": {
"name": "Date John Teasdale Affiliate Program!",
"href": "/affiliates"
}
},
{
"question": "Will you be on my podcast?",
"answer": "Yes.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "Just like that? No conditions?",
"answer": "If it helps more people find the site, I would be on a show called 'Delusional Fuckheads'."
}
]
}
]
}
]
},
{
"question": "How are you still single?",
"answer": "I have a terrible personality.",
"subQuestions": [
{
"question": "No, really. What's the deal?",
"answer": "\n<p>I think about this often.</p>\n\n<p>I get a lot of attention from this website. While getting attention was the idea, I know enough human psychology to recognize the \n danger that I will get addicted to it and subconsiously self-sabotage my true goal of finding a relationship.\n</p>\n<p>\nThe brain is a tricky thing. While I do not think this has happened yet, I do follow a couple of personal rules to keep side-quests to a minimum.</p>\n\n<p>As for why I'm single, I can think of three reasons:</p>\n<p>\n<strong>First</strong>, I spent the majority of my 20s dealing with health issues that defied diagnosis. I did have two significant relationships, but\ncould not show up for them like I needed to.\n</p>\n<p>\nRelated, having food sensativies is not manly; it's hard to sell myself as a protector and provider when I can be defeated by a croissant. \n</p>\n<p>\n<strong>Second</strong>, from the end my last relationship until June 2024, I have been fairly nomadic. Now, I have settled into a beautiful home \nand have cultivated an appealing lifestyle.\n</p>\n<p>\nSo, like a tropical bird in a David Attenbourough documentary, I expect my efforts will create mating opportunities soon.\n</p>\n<p>\n<strong>Third</strong>, I am offering a specific life that's off the beaten path and have high, admittedly out-of-date standards for my partner. So the center of \nthe \"Women I'd Like\" and \"Women Who'd Like Me\" Venn-Diagram is small.\n</p>\n<p>\nHowever, I may be the only single and looking person in 2024 who is actually enjoying dating, and until that changes I can be as picky as I want. After all, I only need to find one.\n</p>\n\n<p>\nBonus reason! When women actually ask me this, I give this exact answer. I could say something appropriate like: \n</p>\n\n<blockquote>\"I haven't found my match yet, but I liked your profile! Why don't we get to know each other over dinner this Saturday?\"</blockquote>\n\n<p>But where's the fun in that?</p>\n"
}
]
},
{
"question": "This is too good to be true.",
"answer": "\n\t\t\t\t<p>So, you read through everything, clicked all the FAQs, and your main thought was: </p>\n\t\t\t\t<blockquote>\n\t\t\t\t<p>This highly opinionated, potentially autistic man is so damn sexy that this must be a ploy to build a harem to rival that of the last Emperor of Constantinople. </p>\n\t\t\t\t</blockquote>\n\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Congratulations</strong> we are actually compatable. Send me a message.</p>"
}
]
}
FAQ
{
"id": "fin",
"type": "text",
"fun": true,
"title": "You did it!",
"cards": [],
"text": "<p>Congratulations on making it to the end.</p>\n<p>What are you going to do now?</p>\n",
"links": [
{
"title": "Send Me a Message",
"url": "/message"
},
{
"title": "Stalk Me on Instagram",
"url": "https://instagram.com/johnpeterteasdale"
},
{
"title": "Join my Affiliate Program! ",
"url": "/affiliates"
}
]
}
You did it!